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I was tired of feeling this way, tired of being depressed especially for someone who always knew how to make the people around me smile just by my presence, I kept thinking about how I have to get a grip and snap out of this yucky mood I put myself  in every time, it's getting old, I can't even remember the last time i went out, had a good laugh or a good time. Speaking of a good time it's been so long since I let myself go, I'm not the kind of person you would call the life of the party but my presence was always noticed, not for how beautiful and attractive I was for a dark skinned girl but I knew had to have a good time.. emphasis on the knew because now it's so hard to keep a conversation going when half the time i'm having conversations with myself...

Every time I put up a blog post, Kola Amodu keeps hounding me to make my posts more personal, and I always go all defensive on him, but today I decided to put 5 things y'all don't know about me

Hey guys, how y'all doing? Today i'm basically going to be asking a couple of questions and giving examples because I myself as a woman do not understand why a woman should be the reason behind another woman's downfall

( True Talk )  After Think Like A Man, I'm sure some people picked up the 90 days rule. That basically means not sleeping with a guy you meet or start a relationship with until after 90 days . I kinda get the 90 days rule, It gives you time to get to know the person a little bit better, and also he cannot deny knowing you because a lot of guys sleep with girls and the next day they don't even remember their names. He would probably describe her like, the girl with the big ass, or the girl from Quilox or something... lol...

Everyone should have a support group, when I say support group I mean people around you who genuinely care about you and believe in you. they believe in your dreams, that you can be the best at what you want to do. That's my own definition of a support group, but with that explanation you can see the bigger picture of the point I'm trying to make.

Time doesn't heal all wounds, It just gives you time to push those feelings to the back of your mind and teaches you to live with them, till they stop hurting. but the pain is never gone. That doesn't mean it would not get better or that you wouldn't stop feeling like your whole world is falling apart, that doesn't mean you wouldn't stop feeling like you're loosing your mind or that you wouldn't stop doubting yourself. 

Hey Guys, How yall doing? I know Natural hair can be a challenge at times. Whether you are an old or a new natural, and this usually leads to a bad hair day or frustration. It happens to the best of us, but don't worry, I'm here to give you guys some  hacks you can use the next time your hair gives you a hard time. Some of these tips are common knowledge, while others are things you never thought of. Either way, this is an easy list that you can bookmark for future reference.

Hey guys, Happy New Month... I know y'all have missed me, i've just been so busy but I promise I am gonna try post frequently now, especially those who follow my natural hair journey. So today I would be talking about Hair Porosity. I don't know if you've heard about it before, I just found out what it meant when my best friend was complaining that she has low porosity or high porosity and i'm like please which one is hair porosity again and shes like Google it, which I did obviously. Now I am here to explain what Hair Porosity is and also give you guys some tips on How to Manage it

I know it's not as easy as you thought it would be, right from when you were a little kid you had dreams of who or what you wanted to be. The fact is everyone wants to be rich and famous or would I say most people want to be rich and famous which isn't a bad thing , but the key to achieving your Dreams, Goals and Aspirations is Never Ever Giving up.

Hey guys, how yall doing today,So while I was on facebook today I saw this amazing article about how to keep your mouth shut concerning some personal things in your relationships and I could totally relate, so I decided to write my own version. This is mainly for the women but the men can learn from this and also educate their women about the things they should or shouldn't say about their relationships outside. I could totally relate to this article because we women, we can like to talk for Africa.... Our Mouths just never stops moving, don't get me wrong it's not a bad thing to be a talker, I mean I am an example of a talker, I love to talk ehnnnn, but still there should be a limit to things we say outside. Although some women talk a lot about stuffs like my man does this, my man does that just because they want to boast while some just do it harmlessly, If you fall in any of these categories this would help you out.

Hey guys, its another blog post on my natural hair journey that i promised to post, my hair has been covered for a while now because I've had protective styles on. I had faux locs on for about 5-6 weeks and then after that I had braids on for about 5 weeks too, Thats about a 11 weeks in all for both styles. Faux locs 

Hey Guys, I Know its been a while, I missed you too LOL.... Ok today I would be giving you some tips, or would I say Advice I mean I am not a pro at these things, these is just a topic my friend Segun gave me to work on and I know its affecting a lot of couples but, this is what I came up with..... Managing your Life, Work and Relationship is not an easy task, in fact some people think it is not possible, some part would suffer, maybe work or relationship, but I personally think it is possible to balance your Life, work and your relationship.

Faux Locs  Protective styles are basically styles you do that don't require you touching your hair every day, you can literally just wake up and go out the door for the day without having to style or touch your hair. there are so many types of protective styles, like the Braids, Twists, Faux Locs, Dreads Etc, Protectives styles are not limited, you just have to be creative about what your doing to your hair.

Staying authentic despite pressures from society, peers, family to conform. Being yourself doesn't mean looking completely different, being unique and never doing mainstream things. It means to always be internally motivated, making choices that are not dependent on what current trends/biases/stigma appear to be. Peer Pressure simply means the 'influence from members of one's peer group'.

I was doing a lil bit of reading and I stumbled upon this, I thought I'd  share with you guys. Soul Mate: Someone who is aligned with your soul and is sent to challenge, awaken and stir different parts of you in order for your soul to transcend to a higher level of consciousness and awareness. Once the lesson has been learnt, physical separation usually occurs.

"Happiness is a mood not a destination" This is a sentence I use a lot. and it makes a whole lot of sense to me.. Happiness is a skill you can build with consistent practice, you have the ability to control how fulfilling your life is.

Hey Guys, Happy New Year!!! As they say "better late than never"  I am all about the ladies, not that am a feminist or anything lol, but today i decided to do something for the guys, so guys take note and ladies Valentines day is coming!!! yeah I know, it sucks that its on election day, But that doesn't stop you from buying something for your man. I am sure there are a few ideas on what to buy from here... And guys don't worry you ain't left out from the "things to buy for your Lady" that post would be for later. Any who before I Keep on Blabbing here we go.