Never Ever Give Up




I know it's not as easy as you thought it would be, right from when you were a little kid you had dreams of who or what you wanted to be. The fact is everyone wants to be rich and famous or would I say most people want to be rich and famous which isn't a bad thing , but the key to achieving your Dreams, Goals and Aspirations is Never Ever Giving up.




It can be very frustrating feeling like you're stagnant or not where you thought you would be at a certain age. People tend to time their successes in life that is, at 24 I would like to be a successful independent woman, at 26 I would like to be Married, things like this. This is me talking from a woman's point of view by the way. It is different for the men.
I usually say behind every successful person , is a story, if you want your dreams to come true, you have to
1. Believe in yourself
2. Believe in Your Dream
3. Be Patient, Very Patient
4. Be Very Hardworking
5. Never Ever Give Up,
6. In Everything you do Involve God.

The worst thing you can ever do is compare yourself to other people, everyone's journey in life is different, it is not by how fast but how well you do it. you need to constantly remind yourself that everything and anything is possible and also that your own time to be great would come. This also involves Hardwork And Lots Of Sleepless Nights. You can't sit at home and do nothing and expect your voice to be heard, that's not possible, you cannot afford to be a lazy person.
To be honest it is very easy for some people, it gets easier as they grow up, their parents sort them out with work, money, cars etc, they don't really need to work as hard as an average Nigerian and the way this country works you have to know someone who knows someone.


A Couple of days ago I read Linda Ikejis' success story, How at the age of 30 she hadn't even began to achieve her goals, How she hit rock bottom with the police because she couldn't afford to pay N190K Back, Money she borrowed from a bank (Loan) and had to plead with them to give her more time, How she went from company to company begging them to advertise on a page of her magazine. This woman now has shoes worth so much more than N190k, People run after her to advertise on her blog. she is at this point of her life because she Never gave up on herself and kept pushing, she believed in herself.
People would give up on you, trust me, they would try to discourage you in many ways, try to bring you down, some might be blunt to tell you your dream is not possible and you shouldn't bother wasting your time, It is left to YOU NOT to give up on yourself.


My point is everyone's success story is different, it doesn't have to take so long for your dreams to come true, There would be lots and lots of Nos', But that Yes would change your life, you create your own success story, try and enjoy the little things in life and remember Never Ever Give Up.



xxx
Mama








Comments

  1. The day u decide to quit for just one time,is d day the trend starts. Take the word quit outta your dictionary. Xoxoxo

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  2. beautiful and inspiring write up

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