Happiness

"Happiness is a mood not a destination"
This is a sentence I use a lot. and it makes a whole lot of sense to me..
Happiness is a skill you can build with consistent practice, you have the ability to control how fulfilling your life is.



Happiness should not be tied to a person other than yourself, sadly, most times we cant help it, especially when it comes to someone you love, or things you love, which is only natural.
someone once said to me" since I met you your always happy, even when you are not happy your happy" and I thought to myself " It took a while for me to get here and hearing this about me makes me happy"
The mistake a lot of people make, most especially women is tie their happiness to a particular person OTHER than themselves: boyfriend! husband! (this is not a sub lol), it comes somewhat natural but its totally wrong. whatever the person does to you affects you, physically, emotionally, even mentally. It changes you.
If your going to tie your happiness to someone else, keep some for yourself. this keeps you sane lol. Trust me. Self Happiness,  from within is very important, keeps you balanced to every situation that comes your way.
Also never stop doing what you love even if its mutual, this is wrong in a lot of ways. keep doing what you love, this ensures you still have a lil bit of you in what ever situation your in.( Relationship)
My Point is Happiness has a lot to do with you than anybody else, don't waste your time being grumpy when you can be happy.
Also Positive thoughts is key, DO NOT try to compare yourself to anyone else, we are all different and that makes us special in different ways.
"Happiness is a Choice not a Result, Nothing would make you happy unless you choose to be Happy"
Remember not to blame feelings on others. Your feelings are by definition "what you choose to feel." So next time someone hurts you, let go of their careless words and choose to be HAPPY.